Dad Doesn’t Go Quietly After School District Bans Him Over Pride Flag Showdown

A Michigan father has filed a federal lawsuit against the Grosse Pointe Public School System, alleging the district launched a campaign of “constitutional retaliation” after he publicly objected to the display of rainbow and transgender flags inside his child’s middle school. The complaint, filed on behalf of Gary Shane Pruitt, argues the district violated his First ...
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A Michigan father has filed a federal lawsuit against the Grosse Pointe Public School System, alleging the district launched a campaign of “constitutional retaliation” after he publicly objected to the display of rainbow and transgender flags inside his child’s middle school.

The complaint, filed on behalf of Gary Shane Pruitt, argues the district violated his First Amendment rights by issuing a “no-trespass” order barring him from school property. According to the lawsuit, the dispute began in September 2024 when Pruitt attended a back-to-school night at Parcells Middle School and noticed a proliferation of Pride flags.

When he raised concerns with school officials, the complaint alleges he was met with dismissive shrugs. It also cites a comment attributed to school board member Valerie St. John: “If you are concerned that your child is seeing the colors of the rainbow, I would suggest sending them with tinted sunglasses so they aren’t subjected to the full spectrum.”

Pruitt later returned to the school after hours, which the lawsuit claims was done with permission, and recorded video of the displays. He posted the footage to a parent Facebook group with verbal commentary criticizing the flags as “radical programming” and a “display of sexuality” pushed by “groomer teachers,” as Michigan News Source reported.

In an email to parents, Principal Jason Wesley said the video contained “no threatening content” and was “political in nature.”

The lawsuit alleged the district took several actions in response: ’

Increasing police presence at the school, a move Pruitt’s attorneys say falsely painted him as a physical threat.

Issuing a “no-trespass” order barring him from school grounds, with potential criminal penalties for violations.

Displaying a photograph of Pruitt in the school office branding him a “trespasser,” which his legal team has described as an attempt to “publicly shame” him.

The lawsuit pulls no punches. It levels claims of First Amendment retaliation, defamation, and violations of the Michigan Constitution. It argues the district’s actions were not driven by safety concerns but by disagreement with Pruitt’s views.

The heart of the legal battle centers on whether a public school district can restrict a parent’s access to school property based on speech made off campus. The complaint emphasized that Pruitt’s video was recorded after school hours with permission from administrators, and the commentary was posted on a private Facebook page—not delivered during a school function.

“The chilling effect that would result if parents can be banned from school property for merely criticizing the school or its board is self-evident,” the filing states. “It is not hard to imagine all of the abuses of power that could be committed by the state if public schools are permitted to punish any speech by any parent, at any time, on any device, and at any location, so long as the school found the speech to be ‘offensive.’”

The lawsuit also alleges the situation has affected Pruitt’s child, claiming the student has been “stigmatized, ridiculed, and harassed” by peers following the district’s actions.

Despite Pruitt’s attempt to resolve the matter quietly in early 2026, the district reportedly refused to budge, leaving the “no-trespass” order in full effect. Now, Pruitt is asking a federal judge to step in, seeking an immediate rescission of the order, the removal of his photo from the office, and compensatory damages for the violation of his rights.